Sunday, August 7, 2011

Is she still interested in me? LADIES HELP!?

I started dating a girl close to 2 months ago. She has recently been divorced and has a 2 yr old child. We went out a few times and things were going really well until 2 weeks in, she dropped the "im not ready for a serious relationship" line. Ill admit that up until this point, she was totally the aggressor and made all the moves on asking me out, so naturally when she told me she wasn't ready for something serious, and wanted space, it confused the hell out of me. After this i started to think that maybe she thinks im not interested in her, so rather than give her space, i may have started to act too "clingy" which resulted in me asking her once again if shes interested in making this work 2 weeks later, getting the same response. (im an idiot, i know). After feeling like i wasted all that time for nothing, i decided to play the space card for a second time, only doing it the right way (no contact until she contacts me). Almost 2 weeks had gone by with no contact, when she texted me out of nowhere to see "what was new". She mentioned that she had just drove by my place on her way to the store. Needless to say, i was excited to hear from her, but kept my responses very nonchalant, and made a point of ending the conversation before she did, telling her "id talk to her soon". About 5 days have gone by now, and i haven't texted her, nor has she texted me, but we have definitely gone longer without talking before. I am confused on whether the next move of contact is up to me, because i said "talk to you soon", or if the next move will always be on her, because she is the one that said "she wasn't ready". Does it even seem like she is still interested in me, or am i wasting my time? Ladies help!

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